and I don't even ask that that change.  What I do wonder is why some MAN has control over this board, and how he even found out about it and why he even cares.

Now, if it was said that Karen requested the thread deleted, I would have said go for it.  She started something and got responses that she didn't plan on.  Nothing that is said here has any bearing on a case that has already been decided.  Nothing said here has any reason to get back to anyone actually involved in the case.  Do we even know if her bishop is this man's bishop? No! 

As for protecting their own, I would like to think that I was once in that category, even if I'm not now.  I don't post often because I realize I am not the norm here. Rather than stepping on toes or making people uncomfortable, I read but don't post.  I apologize for doing so about a topic I felt strongly about and one that I feel is universal.  I'm still trying to figure out where her bishop comes into this conversation.

There, I said what I would have to anyone who wrote me a private message. I would have kept it private with you also Kim, but when I feel I've been attacked publically, I will defend myself publically.

Toni