Not just one as in THE wave length. You're welcome to be here, whether looking in or writing. If you have a men/authority thing, you just speak your piece! If there's a big deal over anything, that's life. There are enough of us here that whenever there is a disagreement about whatever, there is sure to be a sympathizer in each corner with an arm around each contender, and if our arms were Elastigirl's, they would often be around the shoulder in each corner.